When it comes to personal style, rules often feel like a double-edged sword. On one hand, rules can provide structure, clarity, and direction. On the other hand, rigidly following rules—especially outdated or conflicting ones—can leave you feeling frustrated, overwhelmed, or stuck.
So, what’s the solution? Not throwing out all the rules, but rewriting them into personalized guidelines that work for you.
Let’s face it: Being directionless in life or style is frustrating. But so is following all the rules to the letter. Here’s why rules often fail us:
The goal isn’t chaos, where anything goes. Instead, we’re looking for guidelines that empower you.
Here’s how to start:
Here’s one easy rule to rewrite:
“If a color looks good when held up against the colors in your palette, it’s a good color for you.”
This guideline is simple yet powerful. It helps you focus on what works without overcomplicating the process.
Go back to your list of style rules and evaluate them one by one. Ask yourself:
Want to simplify the process of rewriting your color rules? Start with my free color quiz. This quick and fun quiz will help you discover the colors that flatter your natural features and enhance your style. Once you know your palette, it’s much easier to create guidelines that work specifically for you.
By making these shifts, you’ll free yourself from the stress of bad rules while creating a style that feels uniquely you.