If you're tired of following all the rules,
and doing the right thing all the time, but still feeling like
--> There's got to be more to "the abundant life" than what I've been doing (I'm secretly kind of miserable).
--> I always feel selfish doing anything for me, but I know self care is important. How do I reconcile that?
--> I'm not sure I would even recognize my own opinions, or I'm not sure it matters much.
--> I have bigger fish to fry than something as surface-level as taking care of myself. My life is a mess!
--> I'd love to get things figured out once and for all, organized and systems in place, but I can't ever seem to keep up with any system I start. What's wrong with me, and what's the point? I don't have it in me to fail at one more thing.
Take a breath. You're in the right place.
and doing the right thing all the time, but still feeling like
--> There's got to be more to "the abundant life" than what I've been doing (I'm secretly kind of miserable).
--> I always feel selfish doing anything for me, but I know self care is important. How do I reconcile that?
--> I'm not sure I would even recognize my own opinions, or I'm not sure it matters much.
--> I have bigger fish to fry than something as surface-level as taking care of myself. My life is a mess!
--> I'd love to get things figured out once and for all, organized and systems in place, but I can't ever seem to keep up with any system I start. What's wrong with me, and what's the point? I don't have it in me to fail at one more thing.
Take a breath. You're in the right place.
If this is you, it's not that you're not trying hard enough or not doing enough. On the contrary, if you're anything like I use to be, or like my clients are, you're working so hard every day to do the right things, but it doesn't seem to matter. You're just as stressed and frustrated as ever, and you're starting to wonder why it seems like life is easier for everyone else. If this sounds like you, read on.
The problem isn't you at all.
The problem is the rules.
It's that the rules you've been taught to follow, consciously or subconsciously, aren't relevant to your lifestyle, your circumstances, your personality, or your values. Or, perhaps, it's that the rules contradict each other, making it impossible to follow all of them all the time. So
what do you do when that's the case? You can't toss out all the rules; that would be directionless chaos.
I can help you give yourself permission to guiltlessly shed
any rules that aren't serving you.
Then I'll teach you the tools to create a NEW set of guidelines
built around YOUR personality, lifestyle, and values.